The most useful local expressions, ordered by importance. Pronunciations are approximate.
Greetings
1
Selamat pagi
Good morning “seh-lah-mat pah-gee”
2
Terima kasih
Thank you “teh-ree-mah kah-seeh”
3
Maaf / Tumpang lalu
Sorry / Excuse me (passing by) “mah-af / toom-pang lah-loo”
4
Sama-sama
You're welcome “sah-mah sah-mah”
5
Tak apa
It's okay / No worries “tak ah-pah”
6
Jumpa lagi
See you again (goodbye) “joom-pah lah-gee”
Local etiquette
Malaysia is home to Malay (Muslim), Chinese and Indian communities. Islam is the state religion, so Muslim etiquette sets the baseline.
Don't offer a handshake to someone of the opposite sex first, especially Muslim women. Wait for them to extend a hand, or place your hand on your chest to greet.
Always use your right hand to give, receive, or greet. The left hand is considered unclean.
Basics
1
Boleh cakap English?
Do you speak English? (widely spoken in cities) “bo-leh cha-kap English?”
2
Saya tak faham
I don't understand “sah-yah tak fah-ham”
3
Tandas di mana?
Where is the toilet? “tan-das dee mah-nah?”
4
Boleh tolong saya?
Can you help me? “bo-leh to-long sah-yah?”
5
Berapa harga?
How much is it? “brah-pah har-gah?”
6
Ini apa?
What is this? “ee-nee ah-pah?”
7
Boleh ambil gambar?
May I take a photo? “bo-leh am-bil gam-bar?”
Local etiquette
Never point at people or directions with your index finger. Use your right thumb (fist closed, thumb out) instead โ that's the polite way.
The head is considered sacred. Don't touch anyone's head, not even a child's.
Shopping
1
Berapa harga ini?
How much is this? “brah-pah har-gah ee-nee?”
2
Boleh kurang sikit?
Can you lower the price a bit? (market bargaining) “bo-leh koo-rang see-kit?”
3
Boleh bayar guna kad?
Can I pay by card? “bo-leh bah-yar goo-nah kad?”
4
Ada saiz lain?
Do you have another size? “ah-dah size lah-in?”
5
Saya nak yang ini
I'll take this one “sah-yah nak yang ee-nee”
6
Minta beg
A bag, please “min-tah beg”
Local etiquette
Bargaining is normal at wet markets and night markets (pasar malam), but don't push too hard.
Shopping malls and chain stores are fixed-price โ no haggling there.
During Ramadan (fasting month), avoid eating or drinking in front of Muslims during daylight hours.
Restaurant
1
Meja untuk dua orang
A table for two “meh-jah oon-took doo-ah o-rang”
2
Minta menu
The menu, please “min-tah menu”
3
Ini halal?
Is this halal? (checks for pork/alcohol) “ee-nee hah-lal?”
4
Kurang pedas
Less spicy, please “koo-rang peh-das”
5
Air kosong satu
One plain water (unsweetened) “ah-yer ko-song sah-too”
6
Nak bungkus
Takeaway, please “nak boong-koos”
7
Sedap!
Delicious! “seh-dap!”
8
Minta bil
The bill, please “min-tah bill”
Local etiquette
Muslim and most local eateries are halal, so they serve no pork or alcohol. Don't ask for pork or order drinks there.
Eating with the hand is common, but only ever use the right hand โ never touch food with the left.
"Air kosong" means plain, unsweetened water. If you just ask for water you may get a sweet drink.
There's no tipping culture, but upscale restaurants may add a 10% service charge.
Getting around
1
Stesen LRT/MRT di mana?
Where is the LRT/MRT station? “steh-sen LRT/MRT dee mah-nah?”
2
Saya nak pergi ke...
I want to go to... “sah-yah nak per-gee ke...”
3
Guna meter, boleh?
Please use the meter (taxi) “goo-nah meter, bo-leh?”
4
Saya guna Grab
I'll use Grab (ride-hailing) “sah-yah goo-nah Grab”
5
Berhenti di sini
Please stop here “ber-hen-tee dee see-nee”
6
Berapa tambang?
How much is the fare? “brah-pah tam-bang?”
7
Beli kad Touch 'n Go
I'll buy a Touch 'n Go card (transit/toll card) “beh-lee kad Touch 'n Go”
Local etiquette
LRT/MRT/monorail trains have women-only carriages (marked pink). Men should avoid them.
Grab is easier and less prone to fare disputes than street taxis. For regular taxis, confirm they'll use the meter first.
Some Muslim women may be uncomfortable if a man sits right beside them on public transport โ be considerate.
Hotel
1
Saya ada tempahan
I have a reservation “sah-yah ah-dah tem-pah-han”
2
Boleh check-in?
Can I check in? “bo-leh check-in?”
3
Boleh simpan beg saya?
Could you keep my luggage? “bo-leh sim-pan beg sah-yah?”
4
Aircond tak sejuk
The air-con isn't cold “air-cond tak se-jook”
5
Password Wi-Fi apa?
What's the Wi-Fi password? “password Wi-Fi ah-pah?”
Local etiquette
When entering a mosque, remove your shoes and cover your shoulders and knees; women should cover their hair with a scarf.
Also remove your shoes when entering Muslim homes or traditional guesthouses.
Emergency
1
Tolong!
Help! “to-long!”
2
Panggil polis (999)
Call the police (999) “pang-gil po-lis (999)”
3
Panggil ambulans (999)
Call an ambulance (999) “pang-gil am-boo-lans (999)”
4
Hospital di mana?
Where is a hospital? “hos-pi-tal dee mah-nah?”
5
Saya hilang pasport
I lost my passport “sah-yah hee-lang pass-port”
Local etiquette
The emergency number is 999 (combined police, ambulance, fire); 112 also works from a mobile.
Watch for motorbike bag-snatchers in tourist areas โ wear your bag on the side away from the road.
If you lose your passport, get a report from the nearest police station (polis) and contact your embassy.